Small things
Life has plenty of small things to be considered. It may not be material for one person but for the other it might be.
Looking at the increasing rate of divorce cases, it looks like the tolerance rate has gone down pretty much amongst couples.
But on the otherside, on a closer scrutiny it seems it is only the smaller things which ultimately lead to bigger rifts in life.
The understanding that needs to exist between couple has to be strong and stable.
According to me the spouse has to be the best friend to the other.
Effort has to be from either side to keep up the friendship.
It does not matter if the marriage was arranged or it was a self decision.
Parents ultimately want their child to be happy in a life together with somebody else.
These days some have long-distance marriage relationships. The couple being together and spending some time for each other is a big deal.
The growing number of DINKS is an example for this. (DINKS - Double Income No Kids).
We are tolerant with unknown faces, little known colleagues, overpowering bosses and every other stranger.
Can't we be a little appreciative and tolerant with our spouses.
Little appreciation, little words of endearment at small things would go a long way.
A wife beaming at her husband's little gifts, wishing him to have a nice day at office is a small thing to do.
A husband sharing his office experiences with her, appreciating the food prepared, waiting for her to come and have atleast one meal with her without being immersed in paper or TV (that's just 15 minutes in a day mind you) is just a small investment in life.
Criticism with each other is a definite NO NO. Surely there must be some better way to put forward our opinion.
Swallow the bitter pill and have a sweet mouth towards the spouse.
Why should it hurt the ego to express love towards the spouse. Let the Shyness go for a six when it comes to spouse and see the married life make a century.
Life is too short to be wasted on anger! Make it Sweet. Share it with your Sweetheart!! For ever and ever...
Looking at the increasing rate of divorce cases, it looks like the tolerance rate has gone down pretty much amongst couples.
But on the otherside, on a closer scrutiny it seems it is only the smaller things which ultimately lead to bigger rifts in life.
The understanding that needs to exist between couple has to be strong and stable.
According to me the spouse has to be the best friend to the other.
Effort has to be from either side to keep up the friendship.
It does not matter if the marriage was arranged or it was a self decision.
Parents ultimately want their child to be happy in a life together with somebody else.
These days some have long-distance marriage relationships. The couple being together and spending some time for each other is a big deal.
The growing number of DINKS is an example for this. (DINKS - Double Income No Kids).
We are tolerant with unknown faces, little known colleagues, overpowering bosses and every other stranger.
Can't we be a little appreciative and tolerant with our spouses.
Little appreciation, little words of endearment at small things would go a long way.
A wife beaming at her husband's little gifts, wishing him to have a nice day at office is a small thing to do.
A husband sharing his office experiences with her, appreciating the food prepared, waiting for her to come and have atleast one meal with her without being immersed in paper or TV (that's just 15 minutes in a day mind you) is just a small investment in life.
Criticism with each other is a definite NO NO. Surely there must be some better way to put forward our opinion.
Swallow the bitter pill and have a sweet mouth towards the spouse.
Why should it hurt the ego to express love towards the spouse. Let the Shyness go for a six when it comes to spouse and see the married life make a century.
Life is too short to be wasted on anger! Make it Sweet. Share it with your Sweetheart!! For ever and ever...
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